Interesting Quotation About Life (Disguished by Football)

Interesting quotation about life mentioned in the context of football: "Football does not build character.  It reveals it." - Randy Gilbert, Head Coach, Riverton Utah

You'll Get Through This -- Max Lucado

"You'll get through this.  It won't be painless.  It won't be quick.  But God will use this mess for good.  In the meantime, don't be foolish or naive.  But don't despair either.  With God's help, you will get through this."   -- Max Lucado

On rearing children

For those gen-Xers and before, you probably remember:  you rear children; you raise cattle.  Having three kids, I can tell you that sometimes it feels like rearing cattle.  An interesting quote I heard today from Dave Ramsey (financial personality) for which I do not recall the original attribution:  the goal is not to "raise good kids" but rather to raise good adults.  Mentoring our children now will hopefully lead to them being better husbands/wives, better citizens, better employees, and in general the type of people we want to interact with later.  If we all take of our parts now, a positive future will unfold later as a matter of consequence.

Update On Posting (Again)

   I think it was Robert Burns (the poet) that said "The best-laid plans of mice and man often go awry".  I think this sums up things since my last posting.  Whether you are visiting again or visiting anew, you might wonder what has caused me to reconsider this (use of this medium for posting my thoughts) ....

  Well - in short, this summer, three significant things happened to me.  First, I turned 40 y.o. (which I am told by others is not middle age any longer, as 50 is the new 40).  At any rate, ironically, it is a turning point that does cause some reflection.  Secondly, I have reached the point of 20 years of marriage.  I have been with Alison as a spouse longer (in terms of life) than without her.  This also has interesting impacts on your perspective.  Lastly, this summer I joined the first every meeting of amyoidosis/MM-amyloid survivors and patients held here in SLC.  It was held up at the Huntsman Cancer Hospital.   It was about 50 / 50 in terms of survivors and patients, with me being probably the youngest survivor, and a few patients that were my age at treatment.  It has been a five year journey .... and something I should spend a little bit more time writing about.

  So, the plan is to make this active once again.  I will try to post weekly (normally on Sundays), but also at random times as ideas/topics strike me.  I will try to use the labels to help people identify which threads they want to follow (given my "roles" and depending on your interests, you will find some things too religious and some things too academic ... but that's ok).  At least I will finally be getting my thoughts and reaction to things down on paper (so to speak).  Maybe it will cause you to think differently; hopefully it will at least cause you to pause and ponder.

Update on Posting

I am surprised at how many people look at this page to (1) get some idea about me as a person and (2) to see if I have posted anything further.

I have been lax in posting; however, I plan to get back to it.  I have updated the different tabs, in particular the reading tab.  If you want to know what I have read recently, look at the top of the list.  I add from the top as I plow through new books.

Thanks for the support and comments I have received, both in email and in person.  I appreciate them.  I will get back to this soon ...

Kipling's Hard Saying

Rudyard Kipling, in his poem "If", wrote the following:

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

He then goes on to with an even more extensive list of things for which, if you fulfill them, you would be considered "A Man".  Kipling certainly had VERY high standards, as I have found it difficult to find men that fulfill just this small section of the poem.  How often do we lose our heads due to someone else!  Maybe if there any poem that we should keep in our memory, it is this one.

A River Runs Through It

The movie entitled "A River Runs Through It" (1992), based upon the works of Norman Maclean, tells the story of two brothers who grow up in Montana in the early 1900s.  They are reared in the same home, go to the same church, have the same parents, and in probably most cases, had very similar early childhood experiences.  However, as the story unfolds, it becomes clear that the two brothers are very different, and consequently their lives take very different paths.  At one stage of the movie, the girlfriend of one of the boys comments "Why is it the people who need the most help ... won't take it?".  This is the question of every older brother who has a younger brother (as in the story) who NEEDS help, but will not take it. 

Maybe the truth of the matter is that in such complicated relationships, the truth of the matter is that the person may not "take it", but as is later mentioned in the movie "… maybe what he likes is somebody TRYING [emphasis mine] to help him."  I continue to try.  I hope one day he will take it.

As a side-note, I highly recommend the movie and the novella (by Norman Maclean).